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　　An awe-inspiring, often hilarious, and unerringly honest story

of one mother's exercise in extreme parenting, revealing the

rewards-and the costs-of raising her children the Chinese

way.

All decent parents want to do what's best for their children.

What Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother reveals is that the Chinese

just have a totally different idea of how to do that. Western

parents try to respect their children's individuality, encouraging

them to pursue their true passions and providing a nurturing

environment. The Chinese believe that the best way to protect your

children is by preparing them for the future and arming them with

skills, strong work habits, and inner confidence. Battle Hymn of

the Tiger Mother chronicles Chua's iron-willed decision to raise

her daughters, Sophia and Lulu, her way-the Chinese way-and the

remarkable results her choice inspires.

Here are some things Amy Chua would never allow her daughters to

do:

? have a playdate

? be in a school play

? complain about not being in a school play

? not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and

drama

? play any instrument other than the piano or violin

? not play the piano or violin

The truth is Lulu and Sophia would never have had time for a

playdate. They were too busy practicing their instruments (two to

three hours a day and double sessions on the weekend) and

perfecting their Mandarin.

Of course no one is perfect, including Chua herself. Witness this

scene:

"According to Sophia, here are three things I actually said to

her at the piano as I supervised her practicing:

1. Oh my God, you're just getting worse and worse.

2. I'm going to count to three, then I want musicality.

3. If the next time's not PERFECT, I'm going to take all your

stuffed animals and burn them!"

But Chua demands as much of herself as she does of her daughters.

And in her sacrifices-the exacting attention spent studying her

daughters' performances, the office hours lost shuttling the girls

to lessons-the depth of her love for her children becomes clear.

Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother is an eye-opening exploration of

the differences in Eastern and Western parenting- and the lessons

parents and children everywhere teach one another.

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　　Amy Chua is the John M. Duff Professor of Law

at Yale Law School. Her first book, World on Fire: How Exporting

Free Market Democracy Breeds Ethnic Hatred and Global

Instability, a New York Times bestseller, was selected

by both The Economist and the U.K.'s Guardian as one

of the Best Books of 2003. Her second book, Day of Empire: How

Hyperpowers Rise to Global Dominance-and Why They Fall, was a

critically acclaimed Foreign Affairs bestseller.

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当我缓缓地穿过俄罗斯的红霞，我意识到小提琴对我来说，也成为了一种压抑的象征。

我曾经坐在家门前思考露露与小提琴的关系。在最后一分钟，我第一次对强烈要求露露坚持练习小提琴的做法产生了怀疑。想想在数不清的时间和岁月中，我付出了多少努力，经历了多少争斗，体验了多少恼怒，又忍受了多少痛苦……这到底是为了什么？我同时也明白了对未来，我到底最为担心的又是什么。

我还想到，我此时此刻的焦虑一定与西方父母相似，这也是他们常常让孩子放弃高难度乐器练习的原因。你为什么要折磨自己并为难孩子呢？这样做有何意义？假如孩子不喜欢甚至讨厌做某事，强迫她去做又有什么好处呢？然而，我现时也十分清楚，做为一个中国妈妈，我很难认同这样的思维方式。

“你还是在打初级水平的比赛吗？”我问露露，“就是最低水平？“

“是的。”她和颜悦色地说。自从我把选择的权利交给她自己，我们的关系就大大改善了。这样做给我带来的负面的痛苦，对她来说却似乎成了正面的收获，她变得更加耐心、更加友善。“我很快就要尝试高一级水平的比赛，我肯定要吃败仗，但是我想试一试，这样做一定很好玩。”

我并不是一个天生好质疑、爱提问的人，我只想记下教授讲述的一切内容，然后死记硬背。

杰德：“孩子无法选择他们的父母，甚至也无法选择自己是否要来到这个世上。是父母把生命强加给了孩子。因此，父母有责任抚养孩子，而孩子对父母没有任何亏欠，他们的责任就是抚养自己的孩子。”

“在我过去所做过的事情中，那些我曾经害怕去尝试的事情，其实才是最有价值的。”

中国父母在教育孩子时不善于面对挫折，无法容忍失败的可能性。从另外一个角度来看，他们的教育模式倾向于获得成功，这也是他们能使“自信满满、拼命努力、从成功走向更大的成功”形成良性循环的原因。

书籍介绍

An awe-inspiring, often hilarious, and unerringly honest story of one mother's exercise in extreme parenting, revealing the rewards-and the costs-of raising her children the Chinese way.

All decent parents want to do what's best for their children. What Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother reveals is that the Chinese just have a totally different idea of how to do that. Western parents try to respect their children's individuality, encouraging them to pursue their true passions and providing a nurturing environment. The Chinese believe that the best way to protect your children is by preparing them for the future and arming them with skills, strong work habits, and inner confidence. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother chronicles Chua's iron-willed decision to raise her daughters, Sophia and Lulu, her way-the Chinese way-and the remarkable results her choice inspires.

Here are some things Amy Chua would never allow her daughters to do:

have a playdate

be in a school play

complain about not being in a school play

not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and drama

play any instrument other than the piano or violin

not play the piano or violin

The truth is Lulu and Sophia would never have had time for a playdate. They were too busy practicing their instruments (two to three hours a day and double sessions on the weekend) and perfecting their Mandarin.

Of course no one is perfect, including Chua herself. Witness this scene:

"According to Sophia, here are three things I actually said to her at the piano as I supervised her practicing:

1. Oh my God, you're just getting worse and worse.

2. I'm going to count to three, then I want musicality.

3. If the next time's not PERFECT, I'm going to take all your stuffed animals and burn them!"

But Chua demands as much of herself as she does of her daughters. And in her sacrifices-the exacting attention spent studying her daughters' performances, the office hours lost shuttling the girls to lessons-the depth of her love for her children becomes clear. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother is an eye-opening exploration of the differences in Eastern and Western parenting- and the lessons parents and children everywhere teach one another.

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